Sunday, December 29, 2013

Guys, be warned: 5 signs she won’t make a good wife

1. She's Commitment-Phobic
If your girlfriend tends to get cold feet even with the thought of
marriage, then it is the firstsign that she might not be the best
person for the role. Given that you've been in a relationship for an
extended period of time, the right woman should be ecstatic at the
prospect of waking up next to you for the rest of your life. If she
feels otherwise, then you might have a potential problem there.
Speaking beyond marriage, if your partner is rather flighty and
indecisive about her other commitments like appointments and haircuts,
you should take this as a cautionary tale for the future.
2. She's Jealous
While it is cute to feel possessive about your partner, if the
jealousy starts getting in the way of how you live, it is another
telling sign overshadowing your concept of happy endings. Girlfriends
who call you every other second to enquire about your whereabouts, who
you're with and what not, might become worse post-marriage. If you
constantly have to reassure your love to her, then the relationship
might not be worth the long haul. While one understands that it is
natural to be insecure, rampant insecurity, only tells upon the future
prospects.
3. Differing Sex Drives
While every man dreams of having a sexually feisty partner for a wife,
sometimes things don't always work out that way. If your girlfriend
doesn't match up to your sexual drive, chances are that after marriage
this will become a potential problem. As much as the naysayers shake
their cudgels against it, but sexual satisfaction is food to a
marriage. Without optimum 'food', the marriage will not survive.
4. She's Disapproving of Your Friends and Relatives
If your girlfriend tries to cut you off from your family and friends,
chances are that her behaviour might worsen manifold after marriage.
The right partner should be able to accept you with all of your
friends and family, no matter how annoying or tyrannical they might
be.
5. She Wants to Change You
If your girlfriend is constantly nit-picking about your appearance,
your characteristics and mannerisms, she will not keep her habits from
its full blown manifestation, post-marriage. The ideal partner should
be able to love you in entirety and care for you no matter what you
look or act like. If her fixation to change everything about you is
apparently annoying now, then it will become more so after marriage.
It is better to test the waters before taking a plunge, rather than
diving headlong and regretting it later. With these signs, you'll be
able to judge if your beloved girlfriend is marriage-material or not.

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