4 Reasons Marriages End in Divorce

Why Marriages End and What You Can Do To Keep
Yours Alive
When I found out that Tiger Woods had been cheating
on his blonde bombshell-of-a-wife with about fifty
different women, I was flabbergasted.
He had a great career, lots of money, and a hot wife, so
why would he do something so stupid? The simple truth
is that there are several reasons why marriages fail;
being aware of the most common reasons for divorce
can help couples alleviate problems in their marriages
and help prevent divorce in the future.
1. Infidelity
Cheating seems like the most common reason for
divorce, due largely in part to the media. Athletes,
singers, politicians, and other "celebrities" are often in
the spotlight because of their infidelity; in some cases,
this cheating involves multiple people and is usually
quite scandalous, garnering worldwide attention and
often wrecking their personal and professional lives.
But infidelity isn't just reserved for those in the limelight
– it's a situation that arises in the marriages of normal
people, too. Infidelity is different from the other reasons
on this list primarily because it's usually caused by other
issues. As a matter of fact, it may occur because of…
2. Communication
Communication is often the glue that holds a marriage
together. If two people are in-tune with each other's
feelings, opinions, and values, then it's a great benefit
to their relationship. Generally, this means that they
actually have to speak honestly and openly with each
other, and although it may seem difficult to do this
amidst jobs, children, and other obligations, it's an
important component to any relationship. If two people
don't openly express their feelings or concerns, then
there's no way to work together to help or fix them. Talk
about sex. Tell your partner if you feel emotionally or
mentally unfulfilled. If you need attention, ask for it.
Two people get married because they communicate that
they love each other and want to make their love
official…so this is a great place to start.
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3. Money
Money is one factor that heavily influences the stability
and solidity of marriages. Money is nice to have, and it's
a great way to show how much you really care, but
money (or lack thereof) often tears people apart. Lay-
offs, medical bills, children and even basic household
bills can be burdensome and can cause stress for couples.
Poverty and the struggles that correspond with it can
test marriages, but communication and mutual
compromise can help a relationship survive amidst
difficult financial times.
4. Priorities
With careers, social obligations, and families to care for,
it can be hard to find quality time to spend with your
spouse, yet the livelihood of your relationship depends on
it. By taking time out of your busy lives to spend quality
time together, marriage satisfaction can be greatly
improved. Don't hesitate to schedule date nights or plan
events with your spouse to make sure they're not missed.
Although marriage may have its ups and downs, it
usually pays off in the long run. Understanding the
primary concerns that often arise in marriage is the
first step in preventing and overcoming them.